Okay...
This MUST be THE MOST Exhausting Thing to do!!
uhuhuh hopefully! tak larat den dah!
Last Saturday, 19th - 20th April was the most excruciating painful heels to me. All gals party mom included was in a hunt for Dilot's wedding gown. Well, not exactly a gown (I wish there are some Muslims Wedding Jilbab anywhere in Klang Valley!) but we were browsing and hunting the streets of Jalan Tuanku Abdul Rahman for Dilot's theme colour - Chocolat (plus a lil gold & cream).
You see, what was shown in a Malay Wedding Mag, does not necessarily means that what they have shown 4 weeks back were actually on their exact location (example: Wisma Selangor - now where the heck is Wisma Selangor anyho?) After a frantic call to the supposedly boutique owner, he apologised and said that they have moved to Ampang and the shop was closed on Sunday! Great Businessman!! (Read: Will go bankrupt soon)
So there we were, stranded in a middle of a Semua House back alley, sweating profusely in a scorching heat and with sore feet (must i say it nearly bleed?)
Plan B:
Go and find any bridal houses available at Jln Tuanku Abdul Rahman and anywhere that the heels can tahan radius. First shop we went in, my eyes caught the most beautiful cloth exactly like Dilot's theme colour but err..it must be custom-tailored to Dilot's desired as seen as in the bridal mag jilbab.
"look auntie, like this eh..exactly like *this*"
The cost?
DO NOT ASK!!
But it surely was one beautiful and rich cloth, chocolat + gold + cream!!
When she finally being measured and consulted by the tailor auntie, we have to backtrack to where we started early morning as my newly bought pretty scarves (not to mentioned not that cheap, ok?) were lost unnoticed (while I was busy looking for the AWOL/ MIA Bridal shoppe). Thankfully it was left in one snobbish & rude bridal peripherals shop (ada ke ayat nih) Huh!...
After looking around for the right wedding scarf (which cannot be found within the radius mentioned), and after a hearty ol' Capitol lunch, mom retired to SOGO with Dilot to shop for her gifts to Anas Iswari. Soon, Taro and I was doing the same, but I was really attracted to a pair of beautiful strappy high heels but sturdy shoes...Yes. I've parted with nearly RM300 for a pair of good quality leather shoes (ok, so it was not THAT expensive, you say)
No Offense, but Vincci has failed me every month. They were nice and lady like with ribbons or suede, but hey! the heels broke every now so often! Every farkin 3-4 weeks as I walk alot! I'm not used to enlarging my BeHind Read: doing desk work 8am-5pm...so...I'd rather hunt for a good quality stylo shoes that tahan my fast walks (I can even run with this baby...)
So there.
At last, even tho I tried to avoid shopping complexes with all my might, I finally succumbed to my internal voice (err nafsu actually). But hey! I bought it with cash, lor! uhuhuh!! Abah said his platinum cards were not used (as often as I do, if I have credit cards) as he hates having outstandings...(but 'scuse me Abah, I did pay my own credit cards?). How I wish I can spend all those money (err credit) and by having a multi rich bf la kan...uhuhu!!
Imagine ler, having Hermes travel bag, LV seasonal handbags, Mizrahi's heels, all those outdoor gears - North Face, Miller, Ophrey, Columbia, Timberland, Keen, Vasque!! Arghh!!! Well...thats the Satanic Part of me (aka shopping mercilessly with borrowed time and money). I love exuding good image. Whether in the office or when I'm doing outdoors. In between? Eheh, You might see me in a simple t-shirt and jeans or slack.
Okay. STOP day-dreaming. I still have to rehearse prudent spending.
Note to self:
I miss Bieboe. Why lah I was so emotionally drawn to my self monologues and ASSumptions? But the best part was him having to say that he loves me...lalallalalaaaa
Monday, April 30, 2007
Sunday, April 15, 2007
.:Catatan Sabtu:.
[Amaran: Ini adalah bahasa rojak lagi pasar. Tidak seswai utk dibaca oleh pembaca yg tidak makan rojak dan tak suka pegi ke pasar]
Tadi:
Tadi si Soda, anak Milo yang sedang hamil duduk berkecimpung di atas riba aku, melihat apa yg aku buat dengan kibod komputer nih. Sedap sikit dia duduk atas ni, tak sejuk sangat.
Lappie aku dah diupgrade..hooray! So kepantasannye amat mengagumkan aku yg jakun lalu dengan kekreatifan yg Allah beri pada aku mlm ni, aku terbuat dua borang online untuk seksyen aku. Improvise dari Boss aku punya idea (dia buat manual). So in case ada soklan-soklan dari customer, bukak saja online form itu dan isi. Kendian, untuk follow-up dan menghantar berita terkini, hantar saja ke email mereka terus. Wah!!! Sungguh teruja dan mengujakan aku untuk bekerja lebih giat!
Yg bagusnya, form ni boleh juga diintegrate ke dalam report harian/mingguan/ malah bulanan atau tahunan. Hmm..I'm impress with the new technology. Kena belajar godek-godek. Trial and error. Kena ada perangai kucing...Curious, but don't end up killing yourself lah kan? Aku tau, org yg dah mmg terer komputer akan gelakkan aku. Tapi takpelah...Aku mengaku la, aku baru belajar.
Udah kedapatan emel dari HRA utk aku attend interview. Cuak itu tetap ada. Dah lama tak test the water...ehehe market aku masih menjadik ke? Tapi alhamdulillah Boss Beso aku mmg best dan baik hati. Dia dah pun emelkan tips utk menjawab soklan temuduga.
Jumaat lepas:
Aku ajak Kak Wa pg swim. Bestnye ngan Kak Wa ni sbb so unlike manusia di opes yg angguk-angguk n geleng-geleng, dia straight to the ampang point. Takde nak ngumpat orang or sorok2. Apa rasa dia tak betul dia akan tanya n cakap. Selamba gal. Aku n dia plan nak carpool je. tapi tak pernahnya menjadik, sbb aku dah buat benda lain..and prioriti dah lain...Nak kena anta Piko lagi. So i still like my space - driving my own car.
Aku faham napa ex-boss yg best aku pilih gred tinggi2 masuk seksyen lama aku. He's not blind. Dia tahu what's going on. Dgn gred Kak Wa dia TIDAK AKAN diperkotak katikkan. Kak Wa rox! n aku bangga dgn senior universiti aku ni. Selalu mintak pandangan dia on how to do my work sbb ilmu dia tinggi. Respek!
Lelain perkara:
Sport rims Obit yg bengkok sudah dipulihkan dgn jayanya oleh Kedai David. Nope. Kat sini takde kedai tayar Islam. Aku ni kalau pilih, kedai Islam dulu, then next kalau takde, pegi kedai yg dah makan tawon aku pegi. Mcm workshop uncle Tan, kedai cat Ah Seng, Kedai Tayar David.
So seratus jugaklah terebang melayang. Itupun dia dah diskaun sbb loyal customer. Uhuhu. Sbb tang konar, tayar aku bising mcm kena sangkut kat besi apa, aku pun hantar kat workshop Uncle Tan. Rupa-rupanya, brek pad sudah lari woo. Aku gi service skalik. Terebang lagi duit. Takpelah...bukan gi beli benda mengarut, tapi tok Obit jugak, kan Obit?
Now:
Sekarang aku masih belum mahu tido. Banyak benda bermain di benak aku ni. So, sbb tak bulih nak tido, aku pun online. Kejap lagi sambung baca buku pulak. Sibbaik besok Ahad. Bekfes akan disediakan oleh Haji yg jual mihun sup sedap kat pasar. Teh tarik mama. Then tukar-tukar idea pasal cemana nak rias bilik pengantin (Dilot). Lepas sesi tu, Mama suh aku takeover dapur. Ades, bukan apa. Kang aku masak kang, sumer org makan luar. Kan ke membazir tu? Jadinya, elok aku tak payah masak bersungguh-sungguh. Cukup tok tekak aku jah.
Mcm aritu masak omellette fishcake + mushroom + sosej + cheese (sbb aku tak ske bawang n cili lam omellette). Dimakan begitu sahaja bersama sos cili dan french dressing punya sos tuh atau makan bersama nasik. Selalunya tuk kasik sedap lagi, nasi tu dimakan dengan keropok bersama kicap masin. Atau ikan bilis garing ngan cili api....pehhhh...sedappnya. Aku dah lapa balikla. sayur aku simply broccoli rebus ngan butter n garam jah. Uhuhu Lemak berkrim disukai peha dan bahagian belakang muahahah!
Baru teringat, mlm terlupa nak makan. Tengahari tadi pun dok makan jam 6. Sibbaik sup bayam cili api aku laku. Dimakan pulak dgn ikan mambong cecah sambal belacan..
Ades! Kena stop ni. Kang aku lapar.
Calo! Mau baca buku...
~~~~~
Ended session at 231 am
Tadi:
Tadi si Soda, anak Milo yang sedang hamil duduk berkecimpung di atas riba aku, melihat apa yg aku buat dengan kibod komputer nih. Sedap sikit dia duduk atas ni, tak sejuk sangat.
Lappie aku dah diupgrade..hooray! So kepantasannye amat mengagumkan aku yg jakun lalu dengan kekreatifan yg Allah beri pada aku mlm ni, aku terbuat dua borang online untuk seksyen aku. Improvise dari Boss aku punya idea (dia buat manual). So in case ada soklan-soklan dari customer, bukak saja online form itu dan isi. Kendian, untuk follow-up dan menghantar berita terkini, hantar saja ke email mereka terus. Wah!!! Sungguh teruja dan mengujakan aku untuk bekerja lebih giat!
Yg bagusnya, form ni boleh juga diintegrate ke dalam report harian/mingguan/ malah bulanan atau tahunan. Hmm..I'm impress with the new technology. Kena belajar godek-godek. Trial and error. Kena ada perangai kucing...Curious, but don't end up killing yourself lah kan? Aku tau, org yg dah mmg terer komputer akan gelakkan aku. Tapi takpelah...Aku mengaku la, aku baru belajar.
Udah kedapatan emel dari HRA utk aku attend interview. Cuak itu tetap ada. Dah lama tak test the water...ehehe market aku masih menjadik ke? Tapi alhamdulillah Boss Beso aku mmg best dan baik hati. Dia dah pun emelkan tips utk menjawab soklan temuduga.
Jumaat lepas:
Aku ajak Kak Wa pg swim. Bestnye ngan Kak Wa ni sbb so unlike manusia di opes yg angguk-angguk n geleng-geleng, dia straight to the ampang point. Takde nak ngumpat orang or sorok2. Apa rasa dia tak betul dia akan tanya n cakap. Selamba gal. Aku n dia plan nak carpool je. tapi tak pernahnya menjadik, sbb aku dah buat benda lain..and prioriti dah lain...Nak kena anta Piko lagi. So i still like my space - driving my own car.
Aku faham napa ex-boss yg best aku pilih gred tinggi2 masuk seksyen lama aku. He's not blind. Dia tahu what's going on. Dgn gred Kak Wa dia TIDAK AKAN diperkotak katikkan. Kak Wa rox! n aku bangga dgn senior universiti aku ni. Selalu mintak pandangan dia on how to do my work sbb ilmu dia tinggi. Respek!
Lelain perkara:
Sport rims Obit yg bengkok sudah dipulihkan dgn jayanya oleh Kedai David. Nope. Kat sini takde kedai tayar Islam. Aku ni kalau pilih, kedai Islam dulu, then next kalau takde, pegi kedai yg dah makan tawon aku pegi. Mcm workshop uncle Tan, kedai cat Ah Seng, Kedai Tayar David.
So seratus jugaklah terebang melayang. Itupun dia dah diskaun sbb loyal customer. Uhuhu. Sbb tang konar, tayar aku bising mcm kena sangkut kat besi apa, aku pun hantar kat workshop Uncle Tan. Rupa-rupanya, brek pad sudah lari woo. Aku gi service skalik. Terebang lagi duit. Takpelah...bukan gi beli benda mengarut, tapi tok Obit jugak, kan Obit?
Now:
Sekarang aku masih belum mahu tido. Banyak benda bermain di benak aku ni. So, sbb tak bulih nak tido, aku pun online. Kejap lagi sambung baca buku pulak. Sibbaik besok Ahad. Bekfes akan disediakan oleh Haji yg jual mihun sup sedap kat pasar. Teh tarik mama. Then tukar-tukar idea pasal cemana nak rias bilik pengantin (Dilot). Lepas sesi tu, Mama suh aku takeover dapur. Ades, bukan apa. Kang aku masak kang, sumer org makan luar. Kan ke membazir tu? Jadinya, elok aku tak payah masak bersungguh-sungguh. Cukup tok tekak aku jah.
Mcm aritu masak omellette fishcake + mushroom + sosej + cheese (sbb aku tak ske bawang n cili lam omellette). Dimakan begitu sahaja bersama sos cili dan french dressing punya sos tuh atau makan bersama nasik. Selalunya tuk kasik sedap lagi, nasi tu dimakan dengan keropok bersama kicap masin. Atau ikan bilis garing ngan cili api....pehhhh...sedappnya. Aku dah lapa balikla. sayur aku simply broccoli rebus ngan butter n garam jah. Uhuhu Lemak berkrim disukai peha dan bahagian belakang muahahah!
Baru teringat, mlm terlupa nak makan. Tengahari tadi pun dok makan jam 6. Sibbaik sup bayam cili api aku laku. Dimakan pulak dgn ikan mambong cecah sambal belacan..
Ades! Kena stop ni. Kang aku lapar.
Calo! Mau baca buku...
~~~~~
Ended session at 231 am
Tuesday, April 10, 2007
.:The Post E-day:.
Wahalauweh!
I'm so knackered left and right after Dilot's E-day. To avoid people from asking that NOGO questions, I made myself busy running in and out, downstairs and up. I called and dedicated myself to be The Runner. Lucky Cik Edah was there to head the kitchen affairs. Mama gave her 120% responsibility to do what she deemed fit, and I was the interface between her and Mama and all else. The Interconnections. The Operating System. Muahahah! What an analogy!
Well, nearly everybody saw me as being busy. So the honour of that NOGO questions, unfortunately (or err hooray for moi) went to Along Nora. My cousin who happened to be the same age as Dilot. She kept questioning why her out of all people. Well, that was because she was vulnerable to that NOGO questions by lepaking with the makciks. Uhuhuhu...So lucky me!
There were some makciks that pestered me with that NOGO questions eventho, sadly they knew i HATE them asking that. I can even HATE THEM for why oh why there are being so INSENSITIVE typical MALAY Makcik?
"Kalau makcik/ pakcik/ nek/ tok ? (fill in the blanks) ada calon yang sesuai, kenalkan lah. Kalau ada jodoh, insyaAllah adalah...janganlah dok tanya bila lagi bila lagi, tapi takde action apa-apa. Sekadar tanya for the sake of statistik RAMAI ORG MELAYU akan bertanya begini di majlis perkahwinan pada orang-orang bujang, takperlah...simpanlah. terima kasih." <----ada yg saja direka utk menyedapkan hati.I guess you know wic part, kan?
That makcik, believe me, laughed as if she has been slapped in the face. When will these type of people changed? Why must they be so damn typical, so damn predictable and so damn bo-ooo-ring? The question are so 1950s, that it was no longer fashionable, in fact a blasphemy. Move on! We are already in a new century for faksek!
~~~~~~~~~~~~
On other beautiful, wonderful note:-
My soon to be bro-in-law is a bubbly funny person. So ngam soi with Dilot and he became adapted so fast to our family that sukati je nak buat kelakar hindustan (dok kasi bunga ros to Dilot in front of my DAD, with that romantic gesture la kunun ehehe). My parents' soon to be besan are also happy funny people. Its so good that they can release the tension and stress for the E-day! I think I can ngam with Mak Teh (awat hang sughuh Anas pi beli cincin haluih no? tok nampokk laaaa...)
They came the next day for Nasi Lemak Sambal Sotong + Udang Breakfast get-together and furthering the ukhuwwah. I've shown the hindustani drama that happened the day before thru the handycam. Alhamdulillah...both families ngam with each other...I like!
Though by traditional 1950s standard, we had few glitches - almaklum, we are not that Mengikut Adat kinda people. That happened only to the non-courting, not-knowing who's who brides-to-be...Like hello? Dilot already know who is Anas Iswari and the whole clan and vice-versa. As if, you really have to re-live that 1950s moment (and Dilot to be behind that kain langsir / kitchen door to eavesdrop and smile gedikly to the rombongan meminang/ act demurely like gadis kampung ulu bendol kinda manner. Can't we just be practical? Adat is one thing, but The MOST Important is the Islamic way of handling khitbah (engagement lah) or meminang. Click here
Kan ke Islam itu syumul dan mudah? Kenapelah people want to include all the non-necessities? Menyusahkan, menambahkan azab to the one who's going to be engaged/ married? And why must ALL relatives (tok nek, mak tam, pak teh, blabla) be included for The Decision-making? Like the hantaran, (RM15,555,55<---mcm artis2 pulak, lainler kalau dia Datok Kaya) the events, the invitees..(This is not from my family's side, alhamdulillah). Sometimes people even go to the extreme like Sutun's family. They made it clear that they want Sutun's other half to be one of *their kind*...from the royalties as well...Hmmm..memang sampai ke umur 40 baru minah tu dapat kahwin. Itupun becos she chose to marry the *commoner* - a married 50 something man.
"Dalam Islam soal mulia atau tidak sesuatu keturunan bukan terletak pada tingginya sesuatu gelaran. Sabda Rasulullah tentang tip2 memilih pasangan dan betapa Allah melihat tingginya darjat sesuatu kaum, atau lebih spesifik lagi, seorang individu pada amalan dan taqwanya. Kiter pegang kot tu sudah. Toksah la nak overexxegerate yang keturunan A lebih mulia dari keturunan B, keturunan A selagi dok ada kat muka bumi ni tak jadi nak kiamat.... aduh la... takut biler kiter dok leka sangat claim itu dan ini, dalam tak sedar kiter dah mensyirikkan Allah... Na'uzubillah"<---memetik kata-kata seorang manusia blogger
Come on, this is a marriage pre-license. This is not a real thing, but to *book* a woman for a hand of marriage. Through this pre-license, other male muslims cannot meminang the same girl. Unless they have broken that pre-license agreement. Why must you put unnecessary costs? Also, the Langkah Bendul Adat for me is utter non-sense. Aku redha that my jodoh is still out there waiting to pounce anytime. Aku redha Dilot got hitched first. Aku redha Effi also want to settle down (at last) in 24 months time.
I simply said No Langkah Bendul Adat to Dad. I don't need that sepersalinan gift from Dilot n Anas. But maybe to *please* some old relatives, this adat is there for me. Bah! Tak mo ah sepersalinan bagai. Mintak benda yg praktikal. Like cash? Ahahaha...Bah!
I can't understand one that glorifies an engagement. Its impractical. Why don't you channel all the extra energy to focus on The Wedding? Uhuhu...luckyler bukan majlis tunang aku. If not, I'll skip all the adat makdat, all the pantun mantun, all the unnecessary events. Just straight to the Ampang Point Blank, cincin. Set the date of marriage. Of course this involves both families to be lah kan? Senang. Praktikal. Telus. Clear!
Tapi masa Dilot punya majlis ada satu benda yang aku betul2 suka. The Tazkirah by Ustaz Kautsar. The tazkirah are so timely, to remind the lovebirds that during khitbah is not a time for them to be like that of hubby n wifey thingy. NOT YET. So, from this tazkirah, I re-learned and benefited ALL of us ( I guess mostly ler, mana yg tak berfaedah tu up to the person attended ler kan?)
So there. I'm happy that Dilot finally found someone that bagai buah pelam dibelah dua..sebab dowa-dowa comeiii...sama debab, tapi comeiii...tak sabo tunggu depa nikah and produce comeii nieces and nephews for us. I pray for their happiness and murah rezeki, insyaAllah..
I'm so knackered left and right after Dilot's E-day. To avoid people from asking that NOGO questions, I made myself busy running in and out, downstairs and up. I called and dedicated myself to be The Runner. Lucky Cik Edah was there to head the kitchen affairs. Mama gave her 120% responsibility to do what she deemed fit, and I was the interface between her and Mama and all else. The Interconnections. The Operating System. Muahahah! What an analogy!
Well, nearly everybody saw me as being busy. So the honour of that NOGO questions, unfortunately (or err hooray for moi) went to Along Nora. My cousin who happened to be the same age as Dilot. She kept questioning why her out of all people. Well, that was because she was vulnerable to that NOGO questions by lepaking with the makciks. Uhuhuhu...So lucky me!
There were some makciks that pestered me with that NOGO questions eventho, sadly they knew i HATE them asking that. I can even HATE THEM for why oh why there are being so INSENSITIVE typical MALAY Makcik?
"Kalau makcik/ pakcik/ nek/ tok ? (fill in the blanks) ada calon yang sesuai, kenalkan lah. Kalau ada jodoh, insyaAllah adalah...janganlah dok tanya bila lagi bila lagi, tapi takde action apa-apa. Sekadar tanya for the sake of statistik RAMAI ORG MELAYU akan bertanya begini di majlis perkahwinan pada orang-orang bujang, takperlah...simpanlah. terima kasih." <----ada yg saja direka utk menyedapkan hati.I guess you know wic part, kan?
That makcik, believe me, laughed as if she has been slapped in the face. When will these type of people changed? Why must they be so damn typical, so damn predictable and so damn bo-ooo-ring? The question are so 1950s, that it was no longer fashionable, in fact a blasphemy. Move on! We are already in a new century for faksek!
~~~~~~~~~~~~
On other beautiful, wonderful note:-
My soon to be bro-in-law is a bubbly funny person. So ngam soi with Dilot and he became adapted so fast to our family that sukati je nak buat kelakar hindustan (dok kasi bunga ros to Dilot in front of my DAD, with that romantic gesture la kunun ehehe). My parents' soon to be besan are also happy funny people. Its so good that they can release the tension and stress for the E-day! I think I can ngam with Mak Teh (awat hang sughuh Anas pi beli cincin haluih no? tok nampokk laaaa...)
They came the next day for Nasi Lemak Sambal Sotong + Udang Breakfast get-together and furthering the ukhuwwah. I've shown the hindustani drama that happened the day before thru the handycam. Alhamdulillah...both families ngam with each other...I like!
Though by traditional 1950s standard, we had few glitches - almaklum, we are not that Mengikut Adat kinda people. That happened only to the non-courting, not-knowing who's who brides-to-be...Like hello? Dilot already know who is Anas Iswari and the whole clan and vice-versa. As if, you really have to re-live that 1950s moment (and Dilot to be behind that kain langsir / kitchen door to eavesdrop and smile gedikly to the rombongan meminang/ act demurely like gadis kampung ulu bendol kinda manner. Can't we just be practical? Adat is one thing, but The MOST Important is the Islamic way of handling khitbah (engagement lah) or meminang. Click here
Kan ke Islam itu syumul dan mudah? Kenapelah people want to include all the non-necessities? Menyusahkan, menambahkan azab to the one who's going to be engaged/ married? And why must ALL relatives (tok nek, mak tam, pak teh, blabla) be included for The Decision-making? Like the hantaran, (RM15,555,55<---mcm artis2 pulak, lainler kalau dia Datok Kaya) the events, the invitees..(This is not from my family's side, alhamdulillah). Sometimes people even go to the extreme like Sutun's family. They made it clear that they want Sutun's other half to be one of *their kind*...from the royalties as well...Hmmm..memang sampai ke umur 40 baru minah tu dapat kahwin. Itupun becos she chose to marry the *commoner* - a married 50 something man.
"Dalam Islam soal mulia atau tidak sesuatu keturunan bukan terletak pada tingginya sesuatu gelaran. Sabda Rasulullah tentang tip2 memilih pasangan dan betapa Allah melihat tingginya darjat sesuatu kaum, atau lebih spesifik lagi, seorang individu pada amalan dan taqwanya. Kiter pegang kot tu sudah. Toksah la nak overexxegerate yang keturunan A lebih mulia dari keturunan B, keturunan A selagi dok ada kat muka bumi ni tak jadi nak kiamat.... aduh la... takut biler kiter dok leka sangat claim itu dan ini, dalam tak sedar kiter dah mensyirikkan Allah... Na'uzubillah"<---memetik kata-kata seorang manusia blogger
Come on, this is a marriage pre-license. This is not a real thing, but to *book* a woman for a hand of marriage. Through this pre-license, other male muslims cannot meminang the same girl. Unless they have broken that pre-license agreement. Why must you put unnecessary costs? Also, the Langkah Bendul Adat for me is utter non-sense. Aku redha that my jodoh is still out there waiting to pounce anytime. Aku redha Dilot got hitched first. Aku redha Effi also want to settle down (at last) in 24 months time.
I simply said No Langkah Bendul Adat to Dad. I don't need that sepersalinan gift from Dilot n Anas. But maybe to *please* some old relatives, this adat is there for me. Bah! Tak mo ah sepersalinan bagai. Mintak benda yg praktikal. Like cash? Ahahaha...Bah!
I can't understand one that glorifies an engagement. Its impractical. Why don't you channel all the extra energy to focus on The Wedding? Uhuhu...luckyler bukan majlis tunang aku. If not, I'll skip all the adat makdat, all the pantun mantun, all the unnecessary events. Just straight to the Ampang Point Blank, cincin. Set the date of marriage. Of course this involves both families to be lah kan? Senang. Praktikal. Telus. Clear!
Tapi masa Dilot punya majlis ada satu benda yang aku betul2 suka. The Tazkirah by Ustaz Kautsar. The tazkirah are so timely, to remind the lovebirds that during khitbah is not a time for them to be like that of hubby n wifey thingy. NOT YET. So, from this tazkirah, I re-learned and benefited ALL of us ( I guess mostly ler, mana yg tak berfaedah tu up to the person attended ler kan?)
So there. I'm happy that Dilot finally found someone that bagai buah pelam dibelah dua..sebab dowa-dowa comeiii...sama debab, tapi comeiii...tak sabo tunggu depa nikah and produce comeii nieces and nephews for us. I pray for their happiness and murah rezeki, insyaAllah..
Thursday, April 05, 2007
.:Busy Bzz Bee:.
1. Hmm..best nyer dapat Mak Itam yg memahami situasi, "don't get married for the sake of satisfying other ppl, for the sake of marrying, for the sake of other ppl got married, why not me?"
I rest my case. Mak Itam rox, bebeh!
2. Dilot sgt kreatif bab-bab keras tangan nih. Hantaran dia, dia yg buat the whatchamacallit? err..alas dulang yg pakai polistrin tuh...siap munger2, riben, small pearl, uhuhuh. Komfem if aku punya majlis, aku nak upah adik aku sendirik!! <--in fact aku suh dia bukak bizniz online, buat kat umah in her own pace n space. She has talent!!
3. Mlm ni nak tolong Dilot masukkan goodies lam goodies bag. Rasa teruja plak..! Sbb maklumler first time, giler blur aku apa nak buat ehehe...belajar la apa-apa patot. ecewah ceyy...
4. Tengah SERAM tahap maut mengundang ke pintu! Serius...tapi tengoklah. If ada rezeki aku, walau cemana pun, ada...kalau tak dapat pun, mmg ditakdirkan itu bukan rezeki aku, kan? Mintak Mama n Abah doakan aku. and then, they all suh baca Alam Nashroh. Tapi tu ahh rajin sgt baca surah basic2, sampai tershashul la jugek nak ingat. Buduh tol!Lalalala...aku ngaku la, ok?
5. Dpt online ngan Vid kat Sudan. Uhuhu best giler...n jeles gak la cos she can go virtually everywhere around Europe; to Italy, Turkey, Egypt (my dream place to go!)...takpe la Vid ko kasik aku tgk gamba je laa...(bagi souvenir tu bonus :p)
6. Windu kat geng D3kat. tah bile lah nak jumpa mengopi n buat klakar wavelength...ehehhe. Adess miss them all...
7. Dapat achieve my target less than the expected targeted months!!! Wahhh aku bangga dapat tutup insyaAllah, dua kad kredit tawon nih!!! alhamdulillah...pat meself at the back...syabas, syabas inspektor shahabbb...kata aku dengan senyuman paling manis di cermin.
8. Bila 2 kad kredit telah ditutup, makanye, aku kena ikut apa Azam advice...iaitu menjadi prudent spender. tapi kan...memangla susah kan...cos I really love to please myself (n my loved ones) with things (basically I can't afford ler, that is THE WHY I use credit cards! Bah~@!) tapi kena ingat KESUSAHAN untuk MEMBAYAR kad kredit itu mengatasi segalanya...YES! Anaz can do this! Pas tu, nak konsentret buat emergency fund plak! wahahah i need this kinda project to challenge meself whether i can do it or not...Me Versus Me!!
9. I love my family. I love my best buds. I love my job now. Most importante - I love ALlah. Cos without his love, I won't have the love I'm getting now...
I rest my case. Mak Itam rox, bebeh!
2. Dilot sgt kreatif bab-bab keras tangan nih. Hantaran dia, dia yg buat the whatchamacallit? err..alas dulang yg pakai polistrin tuh...siap munger2, riben, small pearl, uhuhuh. Komfem if aku punya majlis, aku nak upah adik aku sendirik!! <--in fact aku suh dia bukak bizniz online, buat kat umah in her own pace n space. She has talent!!
3. Mlm ni nak tolong Dilot masukkan goodies lam goodies bag. Rasa teruja plak..! Sbb maklumler first time, giler blur aku apa nak buat ehehe...belajar la apa-apa patot. ecewah ceyy...
4. Tengah SERAM tahap maut mengundang ke pintu! Serius...tapi tengoklah. If ada rezeki aku, walau cemana pun, ada...kalau tak dapat pun, mmg ditakdirkan itu bukan rezeki aku, kan? Mintak Mama n Abah doakan aku. and then, they all suh baca Alam Nashroh. Tapi tu ahh rajin sgt baca surah basic2, sampai tershashul la jugek nak ingat. Buduh tol!Lalalala...aku ngaku la, ok?
5. Dpt online ngan Vid kat Sudan. Uhuhu best giler...n jeles gak la cos she can go virtually everywhere around Europe; to Italy, Turkey, Egypt (my dream place to go!)...takpe la Vid ko kasik aku tgk gamba je laa...(bagi souvenir tu bonus :p)
6. Windu kat geng D3kat. tah bile lah nak jumpa mengopi n buat klakar wavelength...ehehhe. Adess miss them all...
7. Dapat achieve my target less than the expected targeted months!!! Wahhh aku bangga dapat tutup insyaAllah, dua kad kredit tawon nih!!! alhamdulillah...pat meself at the back...syabas, syabas inspektor shahabbb...kata aku dengan senyuman paling manis di cermin.
8. Bila 2 kad kredit telah ditutup, makanye, aku kena ikut apa Azam advice...iaitu menjadi prudent spender. tapi kan...memangla susah kan...cos I really love to please myself (n my loved ones) with things (basically I can't afford ler, that is THE WHY I use credit cards! Bah~@!) tapi kena ingat KESUSAHAN untuk MEMBAYAR kad kredit itu mengatasi segalanya...YES! Anaz can do this! Pas tu, nak konsentret buat emergency fund plak! wahahah i need this kinda project to challenge meself whether i can do it or not...Me Versus Me!!
9. I love my family. I love my best buds. I love my job now. Most importante - I love ALlah. Cos without his love, I won't have the love I'm getting now...
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