(F always reminded me not to be too happy of things or it will jinxed, but well nau'zubillah)
as I wrote in my previous entries, wa maa karuu wa maa karallah, wallahukhairul maakirinn...Someone dear said that a couple has to work with each other, both of us wanting the same thing, the same goal and insyaAllah He'll grant us to be together in a legal union.
As I just witnessed my cousin's wedding, I day dreamt (while swimming in Riviera's pool) how my wedding will be like:-
1. All my relatives will not be asked to do that kenduri kendara jobs
::Because I want them to come and witness my wedding and just be there
and acknowledge my Other Half as part of their extended family (and love him too)
2. My wedding will be some what different from others (in my family) -
::Besides doa selamat on the night before Akad, i want gamelan as background music. I remember Dilot said she doesn't like the "Selamattt Pengantin Baruuuuu Semogaaa Ke anak cucuuuu" okay that kinda music a No-No.
3. I want a Silat Randai to be performed - a minang defense art kinda dance? It's a beautiful silat like dancing tuh - will ask mom about it. There's a group in my own kampung.
4. If possible, a video performance of how we get to know each other before meal (served not buffet). if buffet spread, i'd like it to be in stalls not nasi minyak but diff. menu. Lantaklah I don't like Nasi Minyak, ok? It's a bore. ZzzZzz
5. I will spend the night in a honeymoon suite; in a private jacuzzi, with big plasma tv, not at home
6. I will integrate our cultures in my wedding.
7. My hantaran won't be *that* expensive. Up to the MAN to give me how much. The most important thing is he will be my husband- I'm grateful of that, and syukur that Allah made us crossed our path. *serendipity*. So tak payahlah nak bebankan dia with hantaran yg ridiculous.
8. My dad will be the Jurunikah. Ehem...bayangkan bakal hubby dok salam tangan Baba and menggigil cakap "aku terima nikahnya..."
9. i know Dad loves the Johor dance tuh ( yg budak2 menari geleng2 kepala tu apa eh? zapin ke?). So I want them to perform that too...they're cute.
10. Immediately I want babies - FAST! muahahah wekk
Big Day Dreaming huh? But hey you can't blame me for being in my fast depleting fertile eggs alright?
11. I like night wedding...sbb leh pasang lilin! lalalalla~@!
Itu jelah dulu kang lagi lama aku berangan kang...lagi merapu.
I'm off to my family dinner in a moment.
yelah tu berangan je lebey
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