Someone dearest to me is having a major heartache. Lets call this person Z. Z nearly believed the significant other was the one Z's gonna end up married. They knew each other for a couple of years. The significant other (TSO) was Z's junior, only that TSO have to work far away and they hardly seen each other for quite some time. Time flew and communication was scarce. Well, both of them are growing adults (some department, perhaps) and they do have other things to do besides *menempek* with each other. Last time, during their gloried days, you cannot seem to miss both of them. They were always together, inseparable, so to speak.
Time flew and they grew. Z loves TSO so much cos TSO accepted Z as who Z was. Someone Z said who knew and understood him. What Z failed to anticipate/ predict was TSO had other perturbing questions that most women her age had, nearing the quarter-life-crisis dilemma (or in this case are having).
Sure, TSO had loved Z, but in the event of uncertainties, pressures and dreams of most women have, she wants an answer. Women (mostly, I'm one of them thank you) wants stability in both relationship and their significant other’s state of mind/ career/ whatever. It is a classic case of *what most women need*. I still firmly believe stability counts, dear. Whatever people may say about this, heck! If they have their opinions, I have mine. So be it. In this case, TSO chose to be with another man whom she thought might give her a betterment of life in *everything* that she do not have previously. Even if it means not loving him. Well, dear…shit happens *most* of the time. TSO was just not meant for Z, cos’ Z deserves someone better. To Z, I'm quoting Raven, “You have my BACK!” ahuh…
Hmm...I hope people can take this as a motivation to do better in their life; ie. History that unlikely to be repeated, but as a drive to elevate one’s confidence and fulfilled life as a whole. As a lesson learned. I do not think women needs that bulk of cash as a guarantee she will love you more, but they need *ATTENTION* and the constant communication so that they know, her man needs her. Yezzer…*attention* is the magic word! Bulk of cash is of course an added bonus, the cherri on top of that creamy yummy ice-cream.
A person who promised none and expect the significant other to just live life a day at a time, a relationship will only lingers and either one of them will be lulled that they are in a *good* relationship. Who wants an endless relationship? Hmmm, not me indefinitely.
Time flew and they grew. Z loves TSO so much cos TSO accepted Z as who Z was. Someone Z said who knew and understood him. What Z failed to anticipate/ predict was TSO had other perturbing questions that most women her age had, nearing the quarter-life-crisis dilemma (or in this case are having).
Sure, TSO had loved Z, but in the event of uncertainties, pressures and dreams of most women have, she wants an answer. Women (mostly, I'm one of them thank you) wants stability in both relationship and their significant other’s state of mind/ career/ whatever. It is a classic case of *what most women need*. I still firmly believe stability counts, dear. Whatever people may say about this, heck! If they have their opinions, I have mine. So be it. In this case, TSO chose to be with another man whom she thought might give her a betterment of life in *everything* that she do not have previously. Even if it means not loving him. Well, dear…shit happens *most* of the time. TSO was just not meant for Z, cos’ Z deserves someone better. To Z, I'm quoting Raven, “You have my BACK!” ahuh…
Hmm...I hope people can take this as a motivation to do better in their life; ie. History that unlikely to be repeated, but as a drive to elevate one’s confidence and fulfilled life as a whole. As a lesson learned. I do not think women needs that bulk of cash as a guarantee she will love you more, but they need *ATTENTION* and the constant communication so that they know, her man needs her. Yezzer…*attention* is the magic word! Bulk of cash is of course an added bonus, the cherri on top of that creamy yummy ice-cream.
A person who promised none and expect the significant other to just live life a day at a time, a relationship will only lingers and either one of them will be lulled that they are in a *good* relationship. Who wants an endless relationship? Hmmm, not me indefinitely.
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