+..Typical Malay's PHD..+

It always amuses moi to anticipate things to happen after a prediction. Another wow factor are when the things you anticipated/ predicted weren't exactly the same but it offered more...say for example; surprise elements.

Yup. That surprise element that made me sit back and pondered how people doesn't seemed like what they were when they were with you. They only show you what they want you to see. But heck! it takes some time to realise what a person really is through their talks, their walks, how they bring themselves, how they speak, how they respect other people, how they eat, how they dress up, how they show their feelings... you know the whole picture of what makes you, YOU.

Its really a small world indeed...if you have the patience enough to see what might happen if you ignore some imbecile's way of showing their anger. Especially typical Malay who have this PHD (Perasaan Hasad Dengki - Envy/ jealousy. Well no English word could level up to this PHD anyho).

I couldn't understand the norms these typical Malays are practicing. They are *afraid* to talk to you personally on what they feel is *right*. They anticipated that I would response negatively, which I might anyho if they use wrong words and tonation. I've always opened to discuss anything under the sky, but please use the right words la...kan... i mean, make it sound positive instead of negative. I know its hard. These are for people who are not used to *talk personally*. Use my guide. Trust me, it works when you choose your words carefully.

Unlike people who is sharp tongue, who has no-nonsense, straight forward kinda person... No beating around the bush. I like this kind of people. They are being transparent. No grey areas. No secret. They say it pretty LOUD and CLEAR. It bites, oh yeah...it hurts...but then it will make you think whether what they say is true. These kind of people seldom lie cos they are being straight forward.

I received one unidentified nasty Sick Mind Saiko (SMS) one fine day while I was having lunchie with B. It was really shocking (but rather stupid - cos I can detect it was from someone who know me in person) as the SMS was really personal. AS IF this person knows me as close as a colleague. I guessed the nasty SMS was from a frustrated imbecile gal who was turned down of sex (just an analogy - no pun intended). The text described me and attacked me in person. Like hello? Do I know you from somewhere?

So I tried to call this XPAX registered number. CELCOM said this number was just registered, but couldn't reveal who the gal was. I saved her number just in case. (yes. usually that kinda msg with that kinda nasty words usually comes from a gal).

So I moved on and live my life as it is. Little that I expected that one long distance friend of mine (lets call him- Naif) messaged me personally to ask about one ID. He revealed how he met this ID thru a chat room that is good for nothing. She told Naif that she works at Klang Valley ( the same office as I am now)..and things got a lil over the line, he asked for her phone number. During their *encounter* online, this gal seemed like accomodating him with *ideas* that men favours.

So Naif called her and they did a lil extra. But Naif was surprised cos the next day, the gal's so-called boyfriend called him up and wanted to know his name, his office address and so forth. so he said, WTF? <----Ms. WTF I like to use this word, sorry ah. Why don't her boyfriend query this gal instead of asking his personal details? She's the one who had been so *user-friendly* and using ID/nick that *suggests* things...and the ID that the gal's using is the same ID that a *dear* friend is using. I instead asked him what's the gal's number as being the kepochi caring person that I am. He gave it to moi. and GUESS WHAT?

The gal's XPAX number is the same Sick Mind Saiko's number. Wallahhh...! There you go. Do nasty things to people, it will DEFINITELY goes back to yah. The mystery was answered without having to pay a single sen. It shook my world for a few minutes. My own so-called buddy here backstabbing me from behind. Being such a cowardice to hide behind an unidentified number to provoke and blackmail me. To attack me in person.

Later, I moved on. I made myself forget about that nasty SMS. I have forgiven her. During Ramadhan while visiting her at the hospital when she operated her brain tummy, she kept on apologising to me as if she has sinned big time. She didn't know that I've forgiven her. I didn't even tell her that I know she was the one who sent me the nasty SMS.

So we were happy again. Until about midnite last nite....

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Kau ni belagak.Mcm smua tau.Padanle muka kau.Amacam dgn pakwe botak kau yang pendek.

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I tot she's already buried the hatchet and moved on. But no-oooo. I was really, really pissed.
After consulting B, and my own (setan). I replied:

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Apa yg kau xpuasati ni? Apesal kau sebok sgt hal org? kau sdiri xtentu lagi mcmmana kt dunia ni. xpayahla baling batu sembunyi tgn. if kau sahabat yg baik, kau ckp kt aku dpn2 la beb. aku tau lama dah nom. kau ni ms.xyz...(nama dirahsiakan atas sebab menjaga ke*malu*an org ini)

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No reply whatsoever. I guessed she's already received my message LOUD AND CLEAR.
Sendirik mauk ingat la beb, kan...

I hate arguing and i hate confrontation. So I guess, I only need to say it once. More than that, that *friend* will no longer worth my friendship.

Well. Life goes on. What passed was forgiven. But for moi, it won't be forgotten.

Ciou for now!